Wondering how you can be more giving in your relationship lately?

Stumped as to what the perfect gift for her could be?

Chocolate is good. Jewelry is always a lovely surprise (if you want to get her something inexpensive but nice, go to overstock.com and check out their sterling silver gemstone rings—cheap but beautiful).

It’s not hard to be more giving in your relationship by buying presents, but I have something even better!

How about giving her the gift of downright delicious sex?!

That’s not only the gift that keeps on giving, but it’s really a gift for both her and you—what could be better than that?

And, it can be a fun game to play one evening by the firelight.

How To Be More Giving In Your Relationship

Here’s how you do it.

Print out the picture below, or better yet, print out pics of your girl, but you’ll need one view from the front and one from the back, and have her assign numbers to the spots on her body that tickle her fancy when it comes time to get naked between the sheets.

Be More Giving In Your Relationship one

Suggest that she assigns numbers in one of two ways:

  • In order of her most titillating spots
  • In a timeline order so you know not only where her favorite spots are, but in what order she’d prefer you to go

Better yet, you can print out 2 copies of the picture and have her label them in both ways listed above—that way there is no confusion as to where she likes it and in what order.

Here’s an example of what her favorite zones might look like:

Be More Giving In Your Relationship two

But here’s an example of the order she’d prefer you to tackle them:

Be More Giving In Your Relationship three

While the spots themselves are the same, the order in which she might like you to lick and nibble them is different. You know that with us ladies so much of yummy sex is about the build up, so knowing not only where to go, but when, can be the key to mind-blowing sex.

So, Will You Be More Giving In Your Relationship?

Now that you know her favorite erotic zones, you can mix and match each time you prop her up on the kitchen counter or playfully toss her down onto the bed. As they say, variety is the spice of life!

I don’t know about you, but the idea of having zesty sex for the rest of my life sounds like a pretty damn good present…and it didn’t cost you a thing. Can’t go wrong with that!

As always, I wish you much love, happiness and happy humping!


Jodi Ambrose is our sex expert here at The Acquiring Man, author of Sex: How to Get More of It (for the guys) and Intimacy: How to Get More of It (for the ladies). She’s also contributed to Playboy radio on the topics of sex, love and relationships. Check out her blog and be sure to follow her on Twitter @JodiAmbrose.