Ready for Titillating Head-to-Toe Sex?
Mission: Not Impossible.
Everyone loves a quickie now and then.
There is something lustily delicious about grabbing your girl, yanking down her panties, bending her over the kitchen counter and having at it.
That kind of animal desire can be one of the many things that keeps the fire burning.
But, your sex life has to be more than just a series of quickies to keep it interesting.
Enter the idea of head-to-toe sex.
For most women, sex is about more than boobs, muff and man parts, so this is your chance to pull out all the stops and make your woman happy in every possible way.
You are going to light up all 5 of her senses until she begs you to get the hell off of her because she just can’t take one more ounce of pleasure. Learn how to turn sex into an all-encompassing experience of delight for both you and your woman.
And always remember, the benefit to you is that the more turned on she is, the wilder in the sack she’s going to be, so this is win/win!
Setting the Stage for Head-to-Toe Sex
Our sense of smell can ignite all kinds of moods.
Some smells take us back to favorite childhood memories. Some remind us of stalking, oh, I mean following, that hottie in high school because their cologne was so mind numbingly yummy that you simply had to smell it as much as possible.
That’s the kind of scent you want permeating the air on this night of nookie.
The key here is finding out what kind of scents turn her on. I’m a little embarrassed to admit this, but one of my favorites is Polo. Yep. Hello 1986.
I came out and told my husband that I like it so he knows to douse some on when he wants to get frisky. There are also candles that smell just as sensuous and would be great to use because they set the mood with sexy lighting.
If you don’t know what scents she likes, ask her.
If she doesn’t know what she likes, take the ever-dreaded trip to the mall, go to the men’s cologne section, have her smell a bunch of them and pick her favorite.
Or go to Bed, Bath and Beyond™ and smell some candles. I know, I know, that sounds like hell on earth, but trust me, if you are looking to have mind blowing sex more often, then titillating her with delectable scents is your first step towards success.
And you only have to do it once, so it’s time well spent.
Oh, and don’t forget to take a shower before you begin your seduction. Nothing smells better than clean on a man.
Women are visual.
We always hear how visual men are. Women are, too!
We also like eye candy; although our idea of eye candy is likely different from yours.
If your plan is to have sex in the kitchen, clean off the counters.
If your plan is to make sweet love to her in the bedroom, pick up your socks and make the bed.
Light some candles to set a romantic tone. Another idea is to put in dimmer switches all over the house. That way you can have sultry lighting with just the twist of a dial.
Also, wear something you know she likes.
You want to stoke the fire by having her feast her eyes on you before the touching even begins.
Whisper sweet nothings (talk dirty to her) and make a little noise!
Depending on the type of girl you have, you may need to start slow with this, but in many cases we ladies love it when a man talks dirty to us.
Now, don’t jump in in the first 30 seconds of romancing her and call her a slut. Most women probably need a little warming up before you start with that kind of talk.
So take it easy, start small and work your way up naughtier and naughtier over the course of a few months.
Make sure to pay attention to her body language and breathing to gauge her response to your sweet nothings. She may not explicitly say, “I love it when you talk like that,” but you should be able to figure it out by her reaction.
Almost all of the men I’ve spoken with over the years say they love it when a woman makes happy noises during sex.
Not only do her noises let you know that what you are doing is working, but they also give you insight into what works best by just listening to how she responds.
Women are no different.
If you’re used to being quiet during sex because you’ve mastered the art of silent self-pleasure in the mornings while she’s asleep, remember that she also wants to know that what she is doing works for you.
Don’t be afraid to let it all out.
The more you let her know what you like by making your own happy noises, the more likely she is to keep doing what you enjoy most.
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. The same goes for the ladies.
Bring a little chocolate into the bedroom. You can line up tiny little pieces of it along your body and let her eat them off of you. Or, better yet, as you are pleasuring her slip a piece of chocolate into her mouth.
What could be more amazing than having ones girl parts tended to while eating a mouthful of chocolate? Heaven on earth!
You could also bring in a bowl of cold strawberries, use them to tease her sensitive spots and then eat them off of her. This is a nice combination of igniting her senses of touch and taste in one fell swoop.
Let your fingers do the talking.
Borrowing wonderful words of wisdom from singer Billy Squire, “Stroke me, stroke me…”
Heavy petting is what gets most girls riled up and when a girl is riled up she’ll do things to your body that will make even you blush.
Think of it this way: when your car has been sitting outside all night in freezing temperatures you know you need to warm it up before it will run properly.
Women are no different.
Using your hands or mouth or feather duster to stroke and tease her, without ever actually touching that sweet spot between her legs, will likely drive her over the edge.
It’s the tease—the wanting but not yet getting—that makes a woman feel like a timid but desirous virgin again.
It makes her long for you to drive it home, but the torture of the tease is what gets her there.
And most importantly, don’t rush.
If your entire seduction lasts 10 minutes, well…that is quite simply too short. It doesn’t need to be two hours, but show her that you are not only willing to seduce her in the way she wants to be seduced, but that you are happy to do it.
When we know you want us and are ready to give it to us like we need, we are more apt to be up for it far more often.
Start your engines!
Now it’s time to put this Head-to-Toe sex romp into play.
Remember, head-to-toe sex is just that. It’s about igniting all of her senses, not just getting her panties off.
And don’t worry, no one expects this kind of seduction all of the time—it would actually get boring if it was always the same thing, regardless of how amazing it is.
Mixing it up helps keep her wondering what it’ll be like the next time; and you want her thinking about the next time as often as possible. The more she thinks about sex with you, the more and better sex you’ll get.
Isn’t that worth a little time and research?
Jodi Ambrose is our sex expert here at The Acquiring Man, author of Sex: How to Get More of It (for the guys) and Intimacy: How to Get More of It (for the ladies). She’s also contributed to Playboy radio on the topics of sex, love and relationships. Check out her blog and be sure to follow her on Twitter @JodiAmbrose.